342: Mormon Women’s Position and Organization Names and Titles

beehive girlsThe Summer 2016 edition of the online journal SquareTwo features the results and a discussion of a recent poll of Mormon women about the ways that LDS women’s organizations are referred to, and about the names and titles of women’s groups, as well as women who are referred to primarily through their relationship to their husband’s titled calling: the “bishop’s wife,” the “mission president’s wife.” It also asked for reactions to a proposal to change the wording of the Young Women’s Theme plus the name of the “Young Womanhood” Award (currently the name of the recognition that is the equivalent to young men’s “Duty to God” award. Respondents who thought that discussions of these things or changes were in order were then given a chance to make suggestions for those new names and titles. Following a Salt Lake Tribune blog post about the survey, discussion really took off, netting an large number of comments both supportive of and quite dismissive of the survey and issues it raises.

This Mormon Matters episode, featuring SquareTwo board member and one of the writers of the article analyzing the survey’s results, Neylan McBaine, and Mormon therapist and writer about women’s issues and group dynamics, Julie de Azevedo Hanks, examines the survey and its findings, but also the interesting feedback it has received. What do these responses say about today’s Mormonism, especially in relation to non-correlated, non-official efforts to open up discussions about and propose potential solutions to issues that negatively affect many LDS women?

Links:

V.H. Cassler and Neylan McBaine, “What’s in a Name?: SquareTwo Poll Survey Results on the Naming of Women’s Positions and Organizations in the LDS Church

Peggy Fletcher Stack, “Mia Maids? Mission Prez’s Wife? Please, in the name of all that is holy, change these outdated monikers, LDS women plead,” Following Faith blog, Salt Lake Tribune, 12 August 2016

Neylan McBaine, Women at Church: Magnifying LDS Women’s Local Impact (Salt Lake City, Greg Kofford Books, 2014)

Julie de Azevedo Hanks, The Assertiveness Guide for Women: How to Communicate Your Needs, Set Healthy Boundaries, and Transform Your Relationships (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 2016)

Julie de Azevedo Hanks, The Burnout Cure: An Emotional Survival Guide for Overwhelmed Women (American Fork, UT: Covenant Communications, 2013)

The Mormon Women’s Project website

341: Teachings about War in the Book of Mormon

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As the LDS Sunday School Gospel Doctrine curriculum turns in coming weeks to the later chapters of the book of Alma and the stories they contain about Captain Moroni, the Stripling Warriors, along with various wars and war strategies, assassinations, and other accounts of events that unfolded between the Nephites and Lamanites, we are pleased to host this discussion that aims to assist with in-class experiences. Joining Mormon Matters host Dan Wotherspoon are wonderful scholars and thinkers, and also current Gospel Doctrine teachers, Patrick Mason and David Pulsipher, for an examination of various ways to better understand some the messages about war within the Book of Mormon and Doctrine and Covenants. How can we separate what is merely “descriptive” of events that took place within the history of Book of Mormon peoples from that which are “prescriptive” attitudes and actions that God endorses? How might understanding Mormon as the primary narrator of these sections give us a better sense of why certain things are there, or are presented in the way they are? In what ways might Mormon’s accounting for the events that take place also be evidence of his own journey that led by the time of his death to his having a different attitude towards war? How should we as Latter-day Saints engage D&C 98’s teachings about war and when violence is justified against one’s enemies in concert with the messages found within these sections of the Book of Mormon? And there is much more!

This is a fantastic discussion with great richness and wisdom for approaching these scriptures and setting up conditions for possibly very good discussions within our upcoming Sunday School classes. As well as in our own spiritual wrestlings, of course! We invite you to share your reactions, ideas, and experiences in the comments section below. Thank you!

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Links:

Patrick Q. Mason, J. David Pulsipher, and Richard L. Bushman, War and Peace in our Times: Mormon Perspectives (Salt Lake City: Greg Kofford Books, 2012)

J. David Pulsipher, When We Don’t See Eye to Eye (American Fork, Utah: Covenant Communications, 2014)

Patrick Q. Mason, Planted: Faith and Belonging in an Age of Doubt (Maxwell Institute and Deseret Book, 2015)

Patrick Q. Mason, The Mormon Menace: Violence and Anti-Mormonism in the Postbellum South (New York: Oxford University Press, 2011)

Eugene England, Making Peace: Personal Essays (Salt Lake City: Signature Books, 1995)

Grant Hardy, Understanding the Book of Mormon: A Reader’s Guide (New York: Oxford University Press, 2010)

339-340: Mercy and the Atonement

Gods-definition-of-Love_3This episode (in two parts) is a continuation of an earlier discussion of Mercy (Episode 332, March 2016) but also very different, focusing this time on “mercy” as it functions for so many as a theological concept rather than the way it should: as something transformative in our spiritual lives. The conversation starts out a bit nerdy, with host Dan Wotherspoon laying out some framings about mercy that he senses are very much in play within Mormonism, but it soon turns into a very approachable and insightful discussion of far more powerful understandings of God and the plan of salvation, and especially the concept of “sin,” than one typically encounters. Joining us again are wonderful scholars, authors, and conversationalists Mat Schmalz, Fiona Givens, and Alonzo Gaskill.

This episode represents very well the wideness of views possible within Mormonism and wider Christianity, in this case Catholicism, as well as their power. If in the past you’ve been turned off by “thin” discussions of religion and the way it is presented, I think this is an episode that could help you reconsider the richness that is present but that only needs a bit of prodding to burst forth.

Please listen and then add your thoughts in the comments section below!

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Links:

Mathew N. Schmalz, Mercy Matters: Opening Yourself to the Life-Changing Gift (Huntington, Indiana: Our Sunday Visitor, 2016)

Terryl Givens and Fiona Givens, The God Who Weeps: How Mormonism Makes Sense of Life (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2012)

Terryl Givens and Fiona Givens, The Crucible of Doubt: Reflections on the Quest for Faith (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2014)

Stephen H. Webb and Alonzo L. Gaskill, Catholic and Mormon: A Theological Conversation (New York City, Oxford University Press, 2015)

Alonzo L. Gaskill, Odds Are You’re Going to Be Exalted: Evidence That the Plan of Salvation Works (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2015)

Alonzo L. Gaskill, The Truth about Eden: Understanding the Fall and Our Temple Experience (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2013)

Alonzo L. Gaskill, The Lost Language of Symbolism: An Essential Guide for Recognizing and Interpreting Symbols of the Gospel (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2012)

Alonzo L. Gaskill, Sacred Symbols: Finding Meaning in Rites, Rituals and Ordinances (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2011)

Announcing A Mormon Matters Retreat: Navigating a Healthy Mormon Journey

Listen to the following conversation about this upcoming Mormon Matters retreat and others that take place under the Open Stories Foundation umbrella and that will be announced soon!

A MORMON MATTERS RETREAT!

“Navigating a Healthy Mormon Journey”
Led by Natasha Helfer Parker, LCMFT, CST,
Marty Erickson, LMFT, Ph.D, and Dan Wotherspoon, Ph.D.

26 – 28 AUGUST 2016, SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH

13754408_10154374696891018_3992030739198989804_nMany of us find ourselves a bit outside the Mormon norm but still feel committed to continue our journeys as engaged members of the church. This retreat is focused on building community among and strengthening Mormons like us in the following ways:

• Navigating faith development in adulthood, including the integration of new and enriching perspectives within a less-traditional Mormon paradigm
• Creating and nurturing healthy relationships, especially in light of faith and worldview differences
• Finding ways to full and healthy sexuality
• Raising children in ways that encourage them to have confidence and depth as they negotiate various Mormon terrains
• Finding friends/community who have similar outlooks and can offer support

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Register
for the retreat: click here
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After registering, participants will receive more detailed information about venue, parking, lunch and dinner options, etc.)

Cost: $375 per person (inquire abut partial or full scholarships and volunteering)

Schedule:
Friday (26th): 6 to 10 pm
Saturday (27th): 9 am to 9 pm or later
(includes lunch and dinner, and entertainment afterward—much of it starring you!)
Sunday (28th): 9 am to 5 pm (lunch included)

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Contact and Further Information:

For questions about registration, logistics, etc.:
Amy Wengertamy.mann8@gmail.com

To learn more about retreat content, purposes, what to expect, etc.:
Natasha Helfer Parker: nhelferparker@gmail.com
Dan Wotherspoon: dan.wotherspoon@me.com

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We look forward to seeing you there! I know it will be something everyone will really enjoy as well as receiving great perspectives, renewed energies, and making new friends!


Note:
This will be the first of what we hope are many Mormon Matters retreats. Right now, we are thinking quarterly, and with each retreat focusing on the key issues above but also with good variety of additional topics.

338: Mormons and Humor

MORMONISM_FBAre Mormons funny? Do we Mormons have a good sense of humor—in general, or, more importantly, when it focuses on ourselves? In introducing Mormonism to those who are outside the faith and attempting to share how the gospel and Mormon life make sense to or motivate its adherents, can a light-hearted, humorous approach be more effective than “earnestness”? In this episode, we bring together three people for whom the answer to this last question is a resounding “yes”! Yet each also recognizes that there are lines—sometimes fuzzy, sometimes very clear—that one must not cross. Often it is informed by fear of losing the good will and respect of the Mormon audience who, let’s face it, will be among the majority of readers even for books about Mormons geared toward outsiders. This audience may be comfortable with finding humor in Mormon culture and its quirks but possibly will balk as one seeks to examine via humor (and its gifts of providing at times very stark mirrors for things under its gaze) certain practices or teachings. When writing for outsiders (and it’s a good reminder when the Mormon audience will be reading, as well), a humorous approach must watch out for pitfalls such as stereotyping, caricaturing, or not recognizing that a particular view of theirs that might feel like “safe” humor territory to you doesn’t feel so for them.

A wonderful panel consisting of Latter-day Saints who have written or illustrated wonderful books examining Mormonism through fun approaches—Stephen Carter and Jett Atwood (author and illustrator of the new book,Mormonism for Beginners, as well as two volumes of a Book of Mormon comic book/graphic novel called iPlates), and Jana Riess (co-author of Mormonism for Dummies, and author of The Twible)—examine these and many other questions. How does humor function more effectively than taking a serious, laser approach as an aid in our examining things we sometimes miss because of familiarity, or because we are living within certain patterns of thought, or shells, or structures that we forget are not themselves actually the “real” thing? How important is a humorist’s own feelings toward its subject—affectionate, antagonistic, dismissive—in her or his ability to reach their desired audience—and not just to entertain them but possibly also aid in their shifting certain perspectives? It’s a wonderful conversation that also features their recommendations, along with those of Mormon Matters host Dan Wotherspoon, of favorite examples of Mormon humor done well.

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Links to (Most) Things Discussed in the Episode:

Stephen Carter (with Jett Atwood illustrations), Mormonism for Beginners (New Haven, CT: For Beginners, 2016)

Stephen Carter and Jett Atwood, iPlates, Vol I: Alma in the Wilderness (2012)

Stephen Carter and Jett Atwood, iPlates, Vol II, Prophets, Priests, Rebels, and Kings (2014)

Jana Riess and Christopher Kimball Bigelow, Mormonism for Dummies (Hoboken, NJ: Wiley, 2005)

Jana Riess, The Twible: All the Chapters in the Bible in 140 Characters or Less . . . (2013)

Elouise Bell, Only When I Laugh (Salt Lake City, Signature Books, 1990)

Elouise Bell, “The Meeting” (contained in the book, Only When I Laugh) and an online version of the rest of the book available here.

Carol Lynn Pearson, “Walk in the Pink Moccasins,” Sunstone, May 2005

Kristine Haglund, “A Short Post about Equality,” By Common Consent blog, 21 April 2011

Paul Allen, Mormon Tabernacle Enquirer: Latter-day News, Advice, and Opinion (Pince-Nez Press, 2006)

Robert Kirby, The Essential Kirby Canon: 20 Years of Shooting at the Hip at the Salt Lake Tribune (2014)

Robert Kirby, Sunday of the Living Dead (Carson City, NV: Buckaroo Books, 1995)

Robert Kirby, Pat and Kirby Go to Hell (Springville, UT: Slickrock Books, 1997)

Robert Kirby, Kirby Soup for the Soul (Whitehorse Books, 2003)

Fonda AlaMode, Laurie Mecham Johnson, Special Living Lessons for Relief Society Sisters (Salt Lake City: Signature Books, 1996)

Samuel Woolley Taylor, Heaven Knows Why (Aspen Books, 1994)

Christopher Moore, Lamb: The Gospel According to Biff, Christ’s Childhood Pal (2004)

337: The Next Mormons

Jana RiessStandout Mormon author, scholar, and commentator Jana Riess is working on her next book, which will focus on Mormonism’s “Millennial” generation (those now between ages 18 and 35) and their spirituality, religiosity, views and attitudes toward aligning with institutions, and much, much more. It will be titled The Next Mormons. In service of that project, she is actively interviewing many, many people, and has just this week launched a Kickstarter campaign to fund a massive, representative national survey of four generations of Mormons, seeking to find key areas of difference that can help illuminate what is occurring among the generation of Latter-day Saints just entering serious adulthood. This episode shares Jana’s vision for the importance of these interviews and studies and the information they will yield, but Jana and co-panelists David Campbell and Derrick Clements, along with Mormon Matters host Dan Wotherspoon, talk about several themes and trends we are now beginning to see come forward among Millennials. The discussions are fascinating, ranging from Millennial “seeking” to attitudes towards marriage and family, as well as experiences in church settings such as temples, sacrament and other meetings, singles and mid-singles wards, etc. It is enough to definitely wet our whistle and become even more thirsty for more information to come forth, especially through Jana’s capable, enjoyable, wonderful head, heart, and hands.

Please listen to the conversation, visit the Kickstarter (it only runs through Friday, July 29th), and join in the dialogue below!

The Next Mormons Kickstarter Campaign

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